Professionalism Vs Relationship

Hi

There was a time when I work professionally with everyone in my office. But since a year I try to work for building good relation with my other colleagues. I got some good friends due to this. But now a days I am feeling like there are some jerks in every organisation who somehow manage to grab top position in the team & then start ruining others. My team is full of those jerks. My role in my team is not very clear due to overlapping of different responsibilities. I try to mange all my responsibilities with polite & friendly nature. But people use to think that they can deal with me in any way & they start actually mis-using my friendly nature. Whenever they have some work from me they behave so good but on the other hand if I have some work with them they just behave abruptly. I hate this double standards.
I try to be friendly with everyone but of course in return I also looking for some politeness & friendliness from them. But instead of showing that they are showing attitude. Oh my Ghosh...So I turn off this friendly nature. Starting from my team mates till the customer including all my managers I will be a true professional. I will do only those activities which are meant for me. I will never miss to kick their ass whenever I got a chance. Uh lala...I can even create opportunities to do that as I am also animal of this kingdom only....or I can say I am also the beast of this kingdom only....

Hey readers...just post your experience too guys n gals...Its good to know that I am not alone facing these things...

Next time I will definitely tell you the story of my success with this attitude...till then I just say...Hey Raj...Welcome back to this cruel kingdom.... :P